Restrict query recursion in `needs_significant_drop`
Overly aggressive use of the query system to improve caching lead to query cycles and consequently ICEs. This patch fixes this by restricting the use of the query system as a cache to those cases where it is definitely correct.
Closes#92725 .
This is essentially a revert of #90845 for the significant drop case only. The general `needs_drop` still does the same thing. The hope is that this is enough to preserve the performance improvements of that PR while fixing the ICE. Should get a perf run to verify that this is the case.
cc `@cjgillot`
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